Later in the evening we went to a small village further away and we ran in to the prepartions for the big happening that evening... the beauty contest!!! Posters of young women in bathing suits were put up all over the place and people were already gathering around the stage. Inspiring reggeaton music made the whole sensation even more intense and my travelling buddies and I started to evaluate the candidates. Who was the best one, that is, most beautiful... right?!
I wanted to stay and see them come out on the stage, but the show wasn't about to start until much later, so we left, without ever getting the chance to know who in the end got to be the beauty queen...
Plastic surgery in Venezuela has become something which today is considered to be normal and almost a requisite if you want to make it to the top, working in areas where you need to sell products, but as well within different service business. But the reasons for getting your breasts operated are more than a carreer thing. Lots of women do it simply for the estetique, something which of course has a very relative base. Different cultures have different ideals of beauty, and the value of being beautiful and attractive, although I most of the time think that it has turned quite global. Now, maybe that is a consequence of globalization as well.
Walking around in any city in Venezuela and one can be certain to see at least a bunch of girls with their breasts done. The female dressing in this country is quite homogeneous, normally with an décolletage (it is only a question of how deep). Having done a surgery to enlarge your breasts is something lots of women are proud of, which normally means going for an even deeper décolletage. Comparing to Sweden where it is almost reverted in terms of openness about an operation, where women try as long as they can to simulate their operated chest as being the real thing...
So why do women feel this need to live up to the ideal in such a high degree that they are prepared to operate themselves, pay a lot of money and take the physical risk it means? It is not even a once in your life thing, since the plastic things only last for about three years, and then you will have to do it all over again. Well... I asked a friend who is about to go through with an operation within a few weeks. She said that her reason was simply that "I want to... for me! It is not for anyone else, for boys or anything like that, it is just that I want to. I will feel better, I want to dress in other types of clothes..." I guess that is a reason as good as anyone. But I can't help to take a sceptical standpoint towards this way of reasoning. Because... from where does the contentness of looking in a certain way come from? There is some kind of twisted and sad paradox working with the minds of the women who think like that. They feel happy and content with their new looks, which is a happyness as valid as any other, but not taking in to account that the foundations of this happyness consist of an ideal created and sustained by the society, and which says that she was not good enough as she was.
So how much should one sociologize about this? There are still many women living in this society who never will operate their breasts, and live happily anyways.
It has gotten to the point where a breast operations has become a "common" (of course we are talking about people with an economic state more or less well established) 15-years birthday present (a very celebrated happening in Venezuela). Considering the immaturity of a 15-year old body it just seems rediculous to let such a person go through with something like that. Not even mentioning the twisted perception of ideals the parents are maintaining and passing on to their children, fucking up another generation.
Well... to be continued, for sure!

1 comments:
Well, what can I say. Sad story and sad reality in a (many) way(s). Like the way you have turned your attention to these important issues. You never said anything about the flashing though, was it a success?
love, joy and warmth to you! /Lindis
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